Suck it up kid…geesh, it’s just a poke.
That’s what is in your mind when you take your child to the doctor for a shot. However, what you actually SAY is “everything will be fine” or “be brave” all while your little angel turns into Regan from The Exorcist. Well, here are a few tips I found to help the visit for the flu shot go a little smoother. And no, shots of vodka for mommy are not on the list. Sorry. They may help you though..so thanks to the Children’s Hospital of Los Angeles for these little nuggets of helpfulness:
Playing “Good” Parent vs. “Bad” Nurse or Doctor
Telling your child that the doctor or nurse is “bad” or “mean” could ultimately result in their distrust of health care providers. You may want to explain to your son or daughter that any treatment given to them by their doctor and nurse is out of concern for their health.
It also helps to focus on the small things that were done to make your child feel better. Try saying one of the following:
- “Thank you, Nurse Laurie, for caring so much about Linda and trying to keep her healthy.”
- “Thank you, Nurse Laurie, for caring so much about Linda and giving her such a nice Band-Aid and sticker.”
Taking Ownership of the Band-Aids
One strategy parents can use is to have the child bring special Band-Aids to put on after the shot, such as bandages featuring a favorite cartoon character.
Keeping Your Cool
In my previous post, I included a list of emotional don’ts for parents to remember during and after the doctor’s visit. Using a parent’s calming physical presence, some children prefer to sit in the parent’s lap for the shot.
If your child does not want to sit for the shot, you may be very clear and offer the child 2 choices only. This limits the child’s options, but allows them to feel in control of the decision. The offer can go something like this:
Distraction During the Appointment
When you arrive for the appointment, distract your child. Bring a book to read, a coloring book, a handheld video game, or play a game of “I Spy.”
When the shot is over…
I recommend keeping the treat small and not making a big deal about the appointment. Making a bigger deal can mean that your child may try to barter for a treat every time they have a routine doctor’s visit. However, celebrating a successful trip to go get shots would be a great excuse to take your child to the park for a day of fun!